I know that feeling. I just recently found out my god kid was christened and I didnt even know about it..Apparently me and the momma was beefing and I was like so what's that got to do with the baby............

i am.. just texted the mom.. i'll get him sun after church :o) so i have to make sure to get the HW done prior to then!

welcome ms. secrets.. talk as much as you want.. it's cool :o) our friendship kinda ended on a sour note, but i made it clear that i stil wanted to be a part of his life.. i just haven't been living up to my end of the deal.. but that's about to end b/c he's the sweetest lil thing!

Maybe I can take my niece and you can take Lil Cuteness to the Zoo this summer!

sounds like a plan tarisa.. i took him to the zoo last summer/fall.. he had a ball but by time we were ready to go.. he was sooo tired! he just wanted me to carry him.. but i was just as tired.. so i had GTL (JWD) carry him...

Kidnap him!..lol He's adorable. He looks like Red from ABC(another bad creation).

Awww he is so cute with that lil spongebob poncho on. I can't wait till my ja-ja gets that big...then again my god daughter olivia is turning one next week and it still amazes me how time has passed. I would love to spend more time with her but she still on the young side to come spend the week with me..since I live three hours away I try to spend time with her when I go visit home....have fun with him...cause that's what he's gonna remember.

hes a cutie
i would feel akward taking him if i wasn't on good terms with the mother. and if i were the mother i wouldn't want my child to be with you anyway...maybe that is why she is not keeping in contact with you. you'll understand when you have babies. thats like my older sister...she has learned not to ask for my kids to come over cause we don't get along. she used to ask all the time but i would always find an excuse. now she tell my kids they can come over if they ask. tht is so wrong. i'm not gonna change my mind just because the kids are asking. i don't want my kids around her so they are not going. but i know you situation is different! *hugs*

Awwwww, he is definitely a cutie.

That's a shame that your relationship with him has to suffer because of things with his mom. I hope you get to spend time with him soon!

he is a cutie, ain't he? damn kool! just b/c the mother & i aren't as cool as we used to be (no real hatred b/w us) doesn't mean that i would do anything to harm him.. im a great godmother.. and im bigger than that to let she & i's relationship get into the way of the betterment (is that a word?) of him. i took a vow under God to be his godmother and make sure that he is always well.. and im going to do that to the best of my ability..

He is so cute!

Girl, go get that boy! I know he misses you too!

n/p kool.. i dont really care where her head is at.. he has my heart.. so i'll do for him as much as i can until she acts retarded and wont let me get 'em.. but i think she knows that im a good godmother & wouldnt make her son miss out on that cause she doesnt "like me at the moment"..

i'm not saying anything aginst you and how you would treat him. i'm just speaking as a mother. i don't know maybe its just me but with my first child i was like if you have a problem with me then you need to step away from my son. cause in a sense that is a little me. i feel out with 2 godmothers and that is why i don't do the godmother thing. they didn't take it seriously as you and i really didn't know what it meant to be a godmother. so maybe its just me and i wasn't speaking as in your realtionship...i said i knew yours was a different situation!!lol.. but i waould suggest that you ask her if she has a problem with you taking her son before you do it just to see where her head is at. sorry girl didn't mean to offend you!

dee.. been there done that.. life is too short to stress over trying to be someone's friend when they dont want my friendship.. i have enough FRIENDS to keep me happy & sane...

yes he is tooooo cute...I need to find someone's child to kidnap for a weekend :-D

He is so cute. You need to get him or at least start calling to talk to him on the phone. That way your ex friend will see that you have good intentions with her son.

My little cousin used to call Sponge Bob Squarepants, Bob Bob Squarepants! Everytime I see Sponge Bob I still call him that...you had to be there LOL

There a few a few instances where I dated someone and became attached to their kid. I know the situation is different than yours, but it is hard juggling the turbulent feelings you have for the adult, and the wanting to spend time with the child.