I've had this whole week off before I start at my new job.. and it's been great! Sleeping in late.. staying up late... Doing NOTHING all day long.. I don't think that I want to go back to work... Just tripping.. I have bills and goals that I have to take care of. I'm trying to go to Charlotte in January and Hawaii in May. Charlotte is definite, Hawaii depends on the price and the payment plan.

I've met up with an old friend from middle school and we have so much in common. I think that she and I will remain good friends. Which is more than I can say for a lot of my current friends/associates. How can you live in someone's house and be on speaking terms with them (and for no reason.) I try not to stress it.. b/c I know that I did nothing wrong, she's just tripping, but it bothers me! All I can think is.. all that I've done for you... shit that you're own family wouldn't do.. and you have the nerve to carry an attitude with me.. not speak.. not answer/return my phone calls. Don't you know that I could be that "bitch" that I'm sure you've told the world that I am, and do some ignorant as shit to you.. but I'm bigger and better than that... Just know that you are slowly, but definitely surely, burning the bridge b/w us that once it's completely burnt, won't be able to be repaired. My husband's blog says to let people walk away if they try to.. it just means that they are no longer supposed to be a part of your life. And for the most part, I agree. And depending on our history together, I can easily say "Fuck you.. peace out homie!" But sometimes, it's not that easy. If the friendship that we shared was a good one, I'm not as easily & readily able to be like fuck it.. I need to work on that, b/c I'll be hurt in the long run. Plus if a relationship comes to an end, I rather for it to end on good terms than on bad, b/c you NEVER know when you may run back into someone, or when you may need someone again....

Tonight, we're going to a hanuted house thing in York (PA.) Should be fun. And then after that, we're headed to Eden's Lounge to see the turn out. My husband is now a promoter for Heid-N-Seek Entertainment. They have Eden's Lounge on Fridays and Club One on Saturdays. You must come out to support. He, S, and T are celebrating their birthday's together again this year. The party will be down Power Plant on Friday (not tonight :oP ) And if they like you like that, you'll be invited to dinner on Saturday.. and then the after-party is at Club One. This year will be WAAAAYYY better than last year! So if they like you.. I'll see you there, and if not, sorry for ya!

Wishing all a happy and safe Halloween this year!

Many of you know that I hated my job with KC Company. I've been looking for a new job since like July. Patience is a virtue that I no longer need when it comes to my job search b/c I start a new job as a Application Support Analyst with Micros on the 31st! I'm really excited. It's totally different from what I'm doing now... which means more money and less work! Don't get me wrong, I appreciate KC for all that I've learned while there, but the job didn't make me happy. I hated my co-worker and boss and some of the people that I had to interact with on regular basis. I left work almost everyday with a headache b/c I was so stressed out. I think the new job will give me the chance to learn something new, other than just how to troubleshoot computer problems -which 9 times out of 10 turn out to be user error - and it will allow me to be a well-rounded IT professional. So... keep me in your prayers that I really like this new position and that I'm able to grow as I plan to.

In other news.... I got a 92% in my first graduate course at Villa Julie College :o)

My homegirl from school moved to NC earlier this year. We keep in touch via the phone and email, but that's really not the same. She came home this past weekend and we hung out like old times. Friday night we went to Club Mate (I didn't have as much fun as I did on my birthday, but it was still cool.) And then Saturday, James and I rode up to PA for dinner at her dad's. It was cool just chilling, tripping, and reminiscing about old times. I really miss her and wish that she didn't move, but that would be selfish of me to expect her not to live her life and do what she needs to do, just b/c I want to hang out with her all of the time. That just means that I have to make more of an effort to make my way down NC. And her daughter... OMG, if she isn't a little E. She's just like her mother.. She's so freaking cute! I miss her so much too.. I forgot that I had a camera phone, I should've took pictures. Her son and I weren't really close so we weren't so excited to see each other, but it was still cool to see how big he has gotten since the last time they were in town. They'll be back up for Thanksgiving. We should have some more fun then!