Monday, February 12, 2007
What can you bring to the table?
I am swamped this morning at work... but I wanted to say hello to you guys! So I decided to share an email that I received with you all... Hope you guys had a great weekend! Hopefully I'll be able to update later today or sometime tomorrow... Either way.. HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!!

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said "Yes." She began to expound... "As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. And even if he is a believer; he needs to believe as I do. I need a man who is striving for perfection f inancially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, and strong enough to keep me grounded when I do go through changes. I don't need a man who is going to purposely bring me grief. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him and he must respect me. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business or who is "messy" in his personal affairs. I have no problem being submissive.. . but he has to be worthy. God made woman to be a help mate for man . I can't help a man if he can't help himself. If he can't help himself then he definitely can't help me. When He said," You are asking a lot. "She replied, "I'm worth a lot." Send this to every woman you know who's worth a lot. You never know she may be suffering from low-self esteem and may not know her worth. And send this to every man who needs to know this and ask him "What can YOU bring to the table?"
posted by TTD at 2/12/2007 10:20:00 AM | Permalink |


  • At 12:27 PM, Blogger Ladynay

    de ja vu! LOL

  • At 12:44 PM, Blogger Freaky Deaky

    Every 10th or so page on Black Planet seems to have that on it. LOL!

  • At 12:45 PM, Anonymous TTD

    i liked it so much.. i had to email to u guys too! :-)

  • At 12:45 PM, Anonymous TTD

    freaky - i guess that's where the sender got it from LOL

  • At 2:23 PM, Blogger Honey-Libra

    Thanks for reminding me to bombard Music with this LOL..sike let me stop..I think he brings quite enough to the table :)

  • At 5:21 PM, Anonymous Anonymous

    HAY TTD---MJB did it again

  • At 9:18 AM, Blogger LUVIN ME

    I got this email a few days ago and it is the truth...

  • At 10:10 AM, Blogger deepnthought

    I need this emailed to me too.

  • At 11:10 AM, Blogger SomeOne

    i member this email. Maybe i should start requesting resumes and ranking them according to this email. lol

  • At 2:39 AM, Blogger The Mistress

    That shit is SOOOOO true though. Who cares if it's gone around a few times, never hurts to read it again!

  • At 9:46 AM, Blogger "J"

    First time I saw this one...thanks!

  • At 6:22 AM, Blogger *snake*bite*

    How are you?

    That is DEFINITELY something that i will be back to copy and circulate in my workplace!
    Some guys just don't know and some women let them forget.

    Thanks hunny!